Friday, March 6, 2009

Cry when you are sad

Cry when you are sad..
Roar when you are angry..
Argue when its not right...
Explain to protect yourself...

Hmm..
this seems to be the normal reaction when we face something like this..

But....
i f0und that i start losing these feeling...
the most obvious one is Cry when you are sad..

i born in a normal family.. i think so..
but since i was small..
very very small ...
when very very very small when baby..cry is something normal..
but since my age growing older..
i was be taught to not cry as i were a boy...
something pain i still remember...
when i was small
i did something wrong.. so i been rotan by my father...
i cry..
ppl did cry..
i still remember my father scold that..
you are a boy.. why are you crying.. i hate to see boy cry...
so he rotan even heavy..til....
i stop crying...

this seems to be bring nothing to me by that time..
by all these years..
i almost never cry since i was small...

But i think that most the time..
i change my sadness into angry..

But lately something happen..
something really hurts happen..
thats what i can blame no one..
it also cant be angry for...
so i feel.. sad...
so pain u knw.. haha..
till i wanna cry...
i found that...

I CANT CRY!!zz
= =''

when i feel really wanna cry...
tears just wont come out..
everything was stuck inside..
that be so so pain so so sad..
Lolz..
and so so emo emo..

nwo then i know..
i lose something..

Cry maybe seems to be a normal thing to most of the ppl..
but i knw that bring diff meaning to other ppl...
so..
just wanna said..
its good when u can cry when u are said...
haiz..
go to work ler..


emo emo




10 comments:

Girl Girl Lian said...

Cry is a kind of expression that shows out how sad we are..
Asians teach their kids not to cry especially boys..
However,I don think that's a good method..
Well,if you really can't cry,
why don u find other way to release your sadness??
Don't change your sadness to anger..
It doesn't make things right..
Cool down.. Relax..
Everything gonna be alright..
Friends are always there for you..
=)
Happy always^^ Cheers~

xueli said...

别那么难过啦。。。好好保重。

瑞祥 said...

omg bear T-T c liao ur post so touch...wat happend for my bear?T-T i will phone u soon,haha

Clement said...

可能也和你的性格有关吧..因为印象中的你,是那么的正面和乐观..并不是失去了哭的能力,只是,在你的内心深处不知不觉地把它"封印"了起来...
每个人都有哭的权力啊...不能因为说你是个男孩子,你就不许哭,只因为男孩子理应坚强吗?哭过了,你才会明白原来,你并不软弱...
当然,总是以泪洗脸的话是不好的咯..哈哈..

Nee nEe said...

hey xiong,
paiseh ar..i now baru noe ur blog..
xD
anyway,wish u good luck ya!!^^

I Sun said...

Dear bear, reading your blog i feel that you are in a very sad moment, and there's no rule on who is to be allowed to express their feelings or not.Talk to someone, or write more on your blog and be energized with how much your friends care about you.. Haha..not only that, don't put in mind of what your father said too much, it just something people always say, and he probably didn't mean it. I've cried very loudly, but i'm very different from you..ahhah..i tend to cry even louder if you call me not to cry..hahah..You know what..maybe your father could have shed his tears as well, when he was caning you. (fathers do very wonderful things behind you..they're like magical beings that helps you secretly)..Besides, I think the reason that your father said that "he didn't like guys who cried" must be because of how he was brought up as well. We have to understand that during their time it was tough life, and their parents probably didn't care about them. It's common for asian guys to be "shy" and tend to not want to share the deep down real feelings of themselves to people, unless, they have someone who might be able to listen, it's a pride thing. But do share your everything on this blog. And keep your head clear from bad memories. God Bless you and your family.

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